The First Date with a Sugar Daddy

The first date! That's of course an exciting thing, considering it could turn into something more. But we're not talking about just any date with some quick acquaintance. This is about the first date with a sugar daddy. The sugar daddy pays his girl, his sugar baby, for personal services, but of course not necessarily for sex. So it's not prostitution but a mutual give and take.

Where should a first date take place?

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A casual café is a very good location for a first date. If you click, a café like that is an ideal meeting place and a hub for further dates without having to get too personal.

What should a sugar baby wear?

Well, that's not an easy question: after all, you don't want to bring the extreme office look with a strict bun to the date. But your cleavage shouldn't be on show all the way down to your navel either. A happy medium is good, but please leave a little to the imagination. Whet the appetite, yes, but no unwrapping, please. A slightly more relaxed blouse and a nice, well-kept skirt in a matching color are perfectly suited for a date like this. "Cooler" sugar babies can also try a stylish pantsuit if it suits their type. Clothes you just squeeze into and don't feel comfortable in, please keep your hands off those.

What topics are good for conversation?

Please don't talk about the weather or relationships. Just chat about shared interests and then ease nicely into conversation. Talking about finances right away isn't exactly sexy either and shows great impatience and perhaps a lack of interest in the person himself. You shouldn't give that impression on the first date with the potential sugar daddy. Casual chatting is always good. A smile helps too.